The two of you need to share common ideals, look after each other, have healthy sexual fulfillment and be truthful to one another.
Lack of these factors results in an energy field that is small, withdrawn and incapable of flowering and feeding others. People are too busy to give love to their spouse, children and parents.
The most direct way to give love to someone is to be in physical contact. You need a quiet atmosphere where the two of you are alone. Whereas it takes about one hour to bring happiness to an impaired sexual energy sphere, it takes two hours for a love energy field.